We are often took by surprise when a person that we thought we knew will do something that deviates from the image that we have on them.
Nagugulat na lang tayo minsan na mali pala ang pagkakakilala natin sa isang tao. Minsan nga kahit yung mga taong sobrang kilala natin, marerealize natin bigla na hindi pa pala natin sila lubos na kilala. These are the reason why I still find it hard to trust people. Although medyo contradicting din kasi when I feel that I'm comfortable with a person, nagtitiwala agad ako.
Minsan, we associate agad a person to a certain image kahit hindi pa natin sila lubos na kilala. Tipong kung ang personality na pinakikita sa atin ng isang tao ay mabait, we classified that person agad as mabait or the other way around.
Because of these things we are often taken by surprise if we saw their other side. Yung tipong they do things that are not expected to do. Magugulat ka pa rin kasi akala mo kilala mo na yung tao na yun. You can even share some experiences na magsusupport sa paniniwala mo. But then marerealize mo hindi pala ganun yun. Usually when people just tell you, yung other side ng tao na iyon, you will find it hard to believe, you"ll always say "Hindi ganun ang pagkakakilala ko sa kanya", maniniwala ka lang kung ikaw mismo ang makakakita or sobrang reliable nung person na pinagsabihan mo.
The hard part is you can never tell if you really know a person. Minsan kahit bestfriend mo hindi mo rin lubusang kilala. Parang you'll still keep a part of you na secret. Mahirap din kasi na ibigay mo ang lahat. Ikaw rin ang kawawa.
Often times, we always put our best foot forward. Also, other people do the same thing. Its really up to us to distinguish who are real and who are posers. On the other hand, don't judge someone easily until you know or you meet the person better.
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